The Art Of Surrender: Trading In Your Perfect Performance For Present Peace. [Chapter 1] Joyful laughs, satisfied faces from the holiday meal, sultry jazz tunes in the background, and only the remnants of pumpkin pie crumbs left in the cracks of the wooden table. Thanksgiving night was coming to a close, all the goodbye hugs [...]
Tight chest. Quick breath. Racing thoughts. I didn't understand why I was feeling this way - it was what seemed to be a perfect Tuesday morning. The sun peeking through the trees, a cozy heated blanket, cute ceramic blue coffee mug in hand, fire place flickering, and my bible on the coffee table ready to [...]
You know what it’s like. Having that friend who can eat taco bell, drink vanilla bean frappuccunios and snack on gummy worms all day but STILL has washboard abs year-round. Meanwhile you work hard to stay in shape, eat right, not too much and make an effort to workout (sometimes) but for some reason, you never look like her. I used to do the EXACT same thing for years - until I learned the holy grail of what it actually means to listen to MY body.
[Hint: It has something to do with Surrender] It was one of those weeks…. The one where all you see are you flaws and all the ways your life could be better. You see your premature aging wrinkles coming through, feel the extra squish between your thighs, obsess over your frayed split ends, and how [...]
Picture this: your average "millenial aged" woman who grew up going to church on Sunday, bible study during the week, and Wednesday night worship service. You'd imagine one would be quite the spiritual gangster - with all the right answers and total peace over where she's headed... right? Completely immune to all teen and twenties [...]
Do you find yourself getting close to a Health goal (or a life goal in general) and then backsliding in bad habits once you reach a certain point? Read here for signs that you're self sabotaging your weight loss (or life general) and how to stop.
Okay... full transparency moment here: I've been writing this same post for a solid 3 weeks now.
And I've literally found every reason in the world not to finish it.
So I am bound and determined to finish this dang thing - because the irony of it is, I'm self sabotaging writing this post.
And it's all because of perfectionism & unrealistic expectations.
I feel unqualified to speak on something I still struggle with: Self Sabotage.
We hiked up our favorite mountain and I haven't felt worthless like that in years… I was completely dead. What used to feel like a cake walk, now was like trudging through sinking sand. All those years of track, half marathons & Spartan races - felt completely nonexistent. I knew that in the past so [...]
Do you have a dream job/career/passion that you want to pursue but you don't because... You think don't have the means to quit your full-time job You figured "I'm not made for this - might as well forget it" You think nobody wants what you have to offer? Well, my friend Elyse is the definition [...]
photo: toneitup.com I can practically smell it now…. The turkey roasting for hours, pumpkin pie being baked, and hot sourdough rolls fresh out of the oven. When Thanksgiving comes around, it’s almost like it’s a hidden rule that you wear your stretchy jeans and a big sweater because you just know it’s about to go [...]
There's something so refreshing about a new month! I'm one of those weirdos that loves Monday's, early mornings, and new seasons. But what I'm most excited for this month is that it's the start of FALL! Bring on the PSL, college football, and all the fall bucket lists. I've really been shifting my focus this [...]
It's actually pretty funny that I write this as I munch on mini donuts and an almond milk latte. But let me tell you: no guilt here, sista frands. We found this adorable hidden gem of a cafe, safely tucked into the big oak trees of Raleigh. The combination of natural lighting, exposed brick, and [...]